Tuesday, October 31, 2006

HOT Cold READING TIPS FROM IN10SE.....

I received this from IN10SE's newsletter.  This great although it may be a
little too late to post. Hopefully, before you guys go out you read these hot tips!

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First of all, Happy Halloween! Halloween is probably one of my most
favorite holidays just because of the fact that you get to be
anything you want - if only for one day.

And that, my friends is KEY.

What people choose to be says a lot about their "shadow".

And I use this simple fact for some GREAT cold reading routines
which I'll give away later on.

But first let me tell you about the "shadow". Carl Jung was one of
Freuds colleagues and one of the major founders of Psychology as we
know it today.

He believed that everyone has a "shadow" - a side that they don't
show to the world. You see, he believed that we're born completely
whole
and as we grow and develop, the culture that we grow up in tells us
what's good (i.e. What to show to the world) and what's bad
(i.e.what NOT to show to the world).

And so we repress the parts of ourselves that we think are bad. For
women, this may be the powerful, dominant, sex driven parts of them.

But remember also the principle that "What is repressed - will
eventually get expressed..." often in ways that we're not aware of.

See the power in this? Everyone has a shadow... What if you could
get someone to "step into their shadow" with you... It is like
having the key to unlock the wild side of any lover.

Well my books show you how to do that.

But let me get to the cold reads... These are GREAT for
conversational openers and themes - and they lead right into my
shadow theme as well.

If you've read any of my material, then you know that this is the
only intro you'll need to take it all the way!

You open the cold read with:

"Interesting - you know what your costume tells me about who you
REALLY are?

If their costume is a:
1) Princess/Snow White/Sleeping Beauty/Fairy/Angel
- they believe in fairy tale endings
- they are romantic and idealistic
- they believe the world to be a place filled with magic and wonder
- they are soft hearted and warm most of the time
- they want to be "swept away" by their prince charming

2) Witch/Vampiress/Devil
- they have a dark "naughty" side that they let out more than
occaisionally
- they definitely have an edge and like to live life that way
- they tend to be physical types who are active and would rather do
something than just think about it all day
- they are pretty sexual and like power play
- they can be dominant in their relationships but in sex they often
like to be dominated

3) Clown/comedian/cartoon character
- they have a great sense of humor, most people don't "get" them.
- they tend to be optimistic and light hearted
- they like to laugh and have fun
- they don't like to take things too seriously

4) A schoolgirl/child/baby
- they see themselves as "innocent" or would like to return to a
stage in life when things weren't as complicated
- they love children
- they love to "play" and love to be taken care of
- they are attracted to authority figure types like "daddy" types

5) Schoolteacher/Nurse/Cop and other authority figures
- they like to be in control in their relationships but like to be
dominated sexually (at least some times!)
- they like to be served and pampered
- they have a "superiority complex" sometimes
- if they actually ARE the profession that they dress up as (i.e. A
"sexy nurse" that actually IS a nurse...etc) they ARE sexy
creatures and KNOW it!

6) HO/hooker/call girl
They ARE a ho!

Anyway, these are just a few for you guys to have fun with.

For techniques on where to go from the opener and how to powerfully
build a connection and escalate things physically then go to:

http://www.social-mastery.com

Enjoy!

IN10SE

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

This is fantastic stuff. I wish it could be applied to everyday encounters and not be reserved for Halloween.. Maybe I should check out the newsletter. Thanks for the post.

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